What to Do If Your Ex Isn’t Complying with a Family Court Order in New York

July 31, 2025

What to Do If Your Ex Isn’t Complying with a Family Court Order in New York

When a family court issues an order in New York—whether it relates to custody, visitation, child support, or spousal support—it is legally binding. Unfortunately, some ex-spouses refuse to follow the court’s directives, leaving you frustrated and unsure of how to proceed. At Law Offices of Harjot Singh P.C., we guide New Yorkers through enforcing family court orders and protecting their rights.


Understanding Family Court Orders in New York


Family court orders are not suggestions—they are legally enforceable commands issued by the court. Common orders include:


  • Child custody and visitation schedules
  • Child support obligations
  • Spousal support (alimony) payments
  • Property transfer or other divorce-related directives


Failure to comply with any of these can have serious consequences for the non-compliant party.


Steps to Take If Your Ex Isn’t Complying


1. Document Every Violation


 Keep a clear record of missed payments, denied visitations, or other violations. Text messages, emails, and written logs can serve as evidence in court.


2. Attempt Communication First


 Sometimes, misunderstandings can be resolved without legal intervention. A polite but firm communication may prompt compliance before escalating the matter.


3. File a Motion for Contempt


 If your ex continues to disobey the court order, you can file a violation petition or motion for contempt in New York Family Court. If the court finds your ex in willful violation, penalties can include:


  • Fines and wage garnishment
  • Suspension of driver’s or professional licenses
  • Mandatory makeup visitation time
  • In extreme cases, jail time


4. Consider Enforcement Through the Child Support Enforcement Unit (CSEU)


 For child support orders, New York’s CSEU can help collect overdue payments by intercepting tax refunds, placing liens, or seizing assets.


Why Legal Guidance Matters


Family court violations can be emotionally and financially draining. An experienced family law attorney ensures that your rights are protected, evidence is properly presented, and your case is handled efficiently.


At Law Offices of Harjot Singh P.C., we assist New Yorkers in enforcing family court orders and holding non-compliant ex-spouses accountable.

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